My wife will not be just another person in my life…
...but will be my goddess
I will cherish her and my children. I will do everything I am capable of doing to never let them suffer the way I did.
If I get out of line. I would like my wife to put me in place but not if it is illogical or unreasonable. If I act like an idiot or lose my cool. I would like to be enlightened by my wife slapping me around or squeezing my balls. To get my mind thinking clearly and intuitively.
(I have had a woman who did this in the right way. A love that I had to let go. Smart, perfect hourglass body, beautiful face, light brown skin, romantic, strong, sassy, well rounded, and kept me in line but with honesty than crass)
I will choose random days to be for surprise presents for my wife.
But sometimes I will just stop for a random amount of months to keep them from being spoiled and they will always be ecstatic about the occasion.
Every four years I will renew my wedding vows on our original Anniversary day which will be on the Fourth of July and when we finish our vows the fireworks should be going off. Totally easy to afford and recreate..
I will let my wife designate an office for herself to escape to that will have locks and only she can enter and it's her private space to relax, escape, do whatever or vent her animosities, and I will have my own.
The secret to a happy successful relationship is to not be clinging and to distance each other a lot. Doing so promotes ecstasy and minimizes any anxiety or resentment towards each other. More freedom equals less stress and hostility against each other.
